When a Loved One Won’t Take Their Meds

Taking your medications as directed by your doctor is important. It’s what keeps you healthy, active, and enjoying life!

But, not everyone takes their medications. Sometimes that’s because of the cost, says Janet Morgan, M.D., an internal medicine specialist at the Cleveland Clinic in Ohio. She also notes that many people fear side effects. Regardless of the reason, don’t shy away from helping your loved one — their health and safety depend on it!

Here’s how to encourage them to take their medications.

Learn their reason. Instead of demanding, “You have to start taking your medicine!” consider saying, “I know it’s hard to take so many different pills. Do you have any concerns?” Have a respectful, compassionate conversation.

Don’t be judgmental. “Let the person know that you care about them and want to make sure they achieve the best health possible,” suggests Dr. Morgan.

Ask to join their care team. Be upfront about it, and get permission first. If they do accept your help, remember that you’re there to help and assist them — not to be the boss.

Ask plenty of questions. If you join your loved one’s care team, be sure to speak up. Are there side effects from medications to watch for? Has a follow-up appointment been scheduled?

Do some detective work. Offer to help write up a plan for dosing directions with their doctor’s help. Don’t overload your loved one with too much information all at once.

Show support in other ways. Your job as a loved one is to, well, be loving. Suggest that the two of you whip up a healthy recipe together (see page 8 for a tasty one!) or sign up online for a SilverSneakers class.